Comments on: A study in closeness http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/ Since we're on it, we might as well enjoy the ride Fri, 24 Jul 2009 22:46:28 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Pool http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2503 Pool Thu, 20 Sep 2007 15:14:56 +0000 http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2503 I'd certainly hope he liked the second one better. It looks like he smelled bad in the first one. I'm sure thats not the case. I’d certainly hope he liked the second one better. It looks like he smelled bad in the first one. I’m sure thats not the case.

]]> By: The Foo http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2480 The Foo Wed, 19 Sep 2007 18:40:05 +0000 http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2480 Avast, maties! it's that time of the year again... TALK LIKE A PIRATE DAY! ARRRGGHH. Avast, maties! it’s that time of the year again… TALK LIKE A PIRATE DAY! ARRRGGHH.

]]> By: Angela http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2477 Angela Wed, 19 Sep 2007 17:53:49 +0000 http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2477 V. ~ very much so. I was feeling pretty mischievous in the first one. I absolutely agree that together is better. And maybe it's just my control issues talking (hahahahhaa), but I have trouble with the idea that one person would be making a lot more effort than the other most of the time. V. ~ very much so. I was feeling pretty mischievous in the first one. I absolutely agree that together is better. And maybe it’s just my control issues talking (hahahahhaa), but I have trouble with the idea that one person would be making a lot more effort than the other most of the time.

]]> By: Voyager http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2471 Voyager Wed, 19 Sep 2007 00:30:16 +0000 http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2471 The second photo is way more real. I'm of the view that it doesn't matter who comes to whom, as long as you come together. Together is always better. V. The second photo is way more real. I’m of the view that it doesn’t matter who comes to whom, as long as you come together. Together is always better.
V.

]]> By: Angela http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2468 Angela Tue, 18 Sep 2007 21:40:50 +0000 http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2468 Thanks, Foo! Sometimes we want to scratch each other's eyes out, but I don't take photos of that. ;) And thanks for the link. I adore cats, but Jon keeps insisting he's allergic. One of these days I hope to wear him down, but it probably won't be this year. Thanks, Foo! Sometimes we want to scratch each other’s eyes out, but I don’t take photos of that. ;) And thanks for the link. I adore cats, but Jon keeps insisting he’s allergic. One of these days I hope to wear him down, but it probably won’t be this year.

]]> By: Angela http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2467 Angela Tue, 18 Sep 2007 21:30:51 +0000 http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2467 On second thought, maybe I should re-title this "Yin and Yang." I just realized that he's in black and I'm in white. Funny! On second thought, maybe I should re-title this “Yin and Yang.” I just realized that he’s in black and I’m in white. Funny!

]]> By: Angela http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2466 Angela Tue, 18 Sep 2007 21:29:27 +0000 http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2466 Ian ~ Thank you. You are too kind. We love that rock star/ actress thing that Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward have going. We may never have been big time, but we definitely have our own little mutual adoration society going on. (Okay, so Paul Newman isn't a rock star, but you understand.) I don't know what it is about performers, but I'm hoping to figure it out someday. ACG ~ I can so feel you. I'm sure that I've been on the other side, too, where I wasn't leaning as much as I should have; but I do know that it always feels nicer when the lean is mutual. I was feeling mischievous this day and just decided to let the film capture what was going on (which I imagine is partly why my smile is so big even though I'm leaning back and out). It's good for us to remember that people won't always be where we think they should be or hope they are if we're not paying attention. I can tell you that Jon didn't like getting caught like this -- He prides himself on being aware. ;) Ian ~ Thank you. You are too kind. We love that rock star/ actress thing that Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward have going. We may never have been big time, but we definitely have our own little mutual adoration society going on. (Okay, so Paul Newman isn’t a rock star, but you understand.) I don’t know what it is about performers, but I’m hoping to figure it out someday.

ACG ~ I can so feel you. I’m sure that I’ve been on the other side, too, where I wasn’t leaning as much as I should have; but I do know that it always feels nicer when the lean is mutual. I was feeling mischievous this day and just decided to let the film capture what was going on (which I imagine is partly why my smile is so big even though I’m leaning back and out). It’s good for us to remember that people won’t always be where we think they should be or hope they are if we’re not paying attention. I can tell you that Jon didn’t like getting caught like this — He prides himself on being aware. ;)

]]> By: Atypical Cal Girl http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2465 Atypical Cal Girl Tue, 18 Sep 2007 20:40:43 +0000 http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2465 So just last week my dude and I were getting ready to go to sleep. I was kissing him and realized that I was the only one leaning in. Man, that pissed me off. Finally I said "You know, I shouldn't have to work this hard." And I rolled over to go to sleep. He rubbed my back a little and asked what was wrong. I told him I felt like he was just there while I was actually in the moment. Being a guy, I am not sure he really understood the difference and why I was upset. But he did apologize and I have noticed him being more affectionate the past few days. So just last week my dude and I were getting ready to go to sleep. I was kissing him and realized that I was the only one leaning in.
Man, that pissed me off.
Finally I said “You know, I shouldn’t have to work this hard.”
And I rolled over to go to sleep.
He rubbed my back a little and asked what was wrong.
I told him I felt like he was just there while I was actually in the moment.
Being a guy, I am not sure he really understood the difference and why I was upset.
But he did apologize and I have noticed him being more affectionate the past few days.

]]> By: Ian Lidster http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2464 Ian Lidster Tue, 18 Sep 2007 16:53:31 +0000 http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2464 I like the second one better, too. What a fine looking couple you are. Lovely. I like the second one better, too. What a fine looking couple you are. Lovely.

]]> By: The Foo http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2463 The Foo Tue, 18 Sep 2007 16:49:34 +0000 http://blogitlikeyoumeanit.wordpress.com/2007/09/17/a-study-in-closeness/#comment-2463 what a happy couple! :-) btw: i know you are a dog person but you have to visit this site http://kittenwar.com. cute! what a happy couple! :-)

btw: i know you are a dog person but you have to visit this site http://kittenwar.com. cute!

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